Teacher at Glynn Academy (GA) and Founder of Glynn Academy’s Terror Buddies
Brunswick, GA

When and why did you start Terror Buddies?
We started Terror Buddies in 2014. I became aware of Glynn County’s Buddy Ball program and thought that bringing the concept of pairing students with special needs with typical students in the school environment would be great. At the time, we had just short of 30 students with special needs. We were hoping to get 30 typical students so everyone would have a new friend. Even that first year our Glynn Academy students rose to the occasion. We had over 90 students sign up to be a part of Terror Buddies. We have never had fewer than 100 students every year after that.

In August 2008, Janet Hendricks was enjoying an active life in Austin, Texas. “I ate healthy. I wasn’t overweight and have never been so. I was so rarely sick; I hadn’t been to a doctor in years,” she said. That all changed in a heartbeat.

“I was just hanging out at home, and suddenly, I couldn’t breathe,” said Hendricks, who now lives in Brunswick. She ended up in the ER where she was initially told she was probably having anxiety because her oxygen levels tested normal. However, her blood work showed something far worse. “Not only was I having severe respiratory problems, but I was also in advanced heart failure. At the age of 48, I was told I needed a heart transplant!”

Those of us living along Georgia’s 100 miles of beautiful coastline may sometimes take our gorgeous surroundings for granted. Fortunately, there is a team of women working every day to protect our area’s incredibly diverse environment. From lobbying in Atlanta and Washington D.C. to educating individuals on small steps they can take, the staff of One Hundred Miles never stops fighting for a future when our coast has thriving communities, protected landscapes and secure wildlife. Meet Megan Desrosiers and the staff of One Hundred Miles…

When officials with the City of Brunswick reached out to Regina McDuffie about taking the City Manager position in 2020 after former City Manager Jim Drumm resigned, she really wasn’t looking to make a move from her long-time position as Macon County Manager.

“I wasn’t really looking (to make a move) but had been ‘fishing’ to see what was out there. You don’t want to ‘catch’ something that you want to throw back. I was surprised when I got the call,” says the native of Macon, GA, whose husband works as an aerospace engineer at Gulfstream in Savannah. The unique opportunities the job offered were too much to resist, and Regina took on the new position in March 2020, making her the first woman to be permanently appointed to the job.

How old were you when you became a certified cleanup site leader for Keep Golden Isles Beautiful? What made you want to do it?
I was 8 years old when I became a certified site leader and lead my first clean-up at the Sydney Lanier Park. I did it because I wanted to make the world a better place, and I knew it started with me. I have a huge passion for taking care of our sea life. It is so much fun to spend hours in the marsh finding debris. It is like a treasure hunt, you never know what you might find or how big of an impact you can make with just a couple of hours of your time. I always set goals for myself to see how much trash I can find. My last clean-up goal was to find at least five tires and by the end of the clean-up, we had found more than 10. Plus, I like to find items during my clean-up to use in my recycled art.

Southern Soul Barbecue has been in the news for a variety of reasons for more than a decade. Generally, the faces of the business are its founders, Harrison Sapp and Griffin Bufkin, but there is a woman behind the scenes who has been instrumental in the success of this St. Simons Island icon. Kitty Sapp has supported her husband’s love for barbecue from the beginning and is now an integral part of the business.

We sat down in the cozy office she shares with Harrison in the building behind Southern Soul. In addition to managing the front of house and merchandising for the restaurant, Kitty handles the bulk of the property management duties for the office building, which also has two tenants. “I like to stay busy,” she laughed. Did I mention Kitty is also treasurer and a board member for The Firebox Initiative? More on that later.

What brought you to Coastal Georgia? My first job out of vet school with Dr. Rossiter brought us here. After having gone to school on a Caribbean island, I knew I had to be near the water. My husband and I both grew up in St Mary’s County, Maryland, and I was born in Bethlehem, PA. As it turned out, my husband actually spent a year or two here way back when and had gone to St Simons Elementary when his dad was stationed in Brunswick.

What was it like going to school in St. Kitts?  Attending Ross University on St. Kitts was the most incredible time of my life. Besides acquiring an invaluable veterinary education from instructors and professors from around the world, I was given a personal life-changing education. I left family, friends and a lifestyle I was used to and entered into a culture and society that was completely foreign to me. When I first arrived, I was so scared and never felt more alone. By the time my two years were completed, I was crying while boarding that American Airline flight back to the US for my clinicals at Oklahoma State University. I was leaving a place that enabled me to find myself and knowing what I was actually capable of becoming—a very strong woman. I experienced many different events that have made me who I am today, and so, besides my veterinary education, more importantly for me was my personal growth. I have never regretted Ross University/St. Kitts being my first choice for veterinary school.

According to Debbie Purvis, her now 27-year-old daughter Ashleigh doesn’t let the challenges of living with Down Syndrome stop her from a full, active life. “I think Ashleigh is living her best life,” she said, as Ashleigh smiled and nodded in agreement.

Debbie and her husband Steve already had a son, Corey, when Ashleigh arrived. “We had no idea that she had Down Syndrome until she was born,” said Debbie, a longtime local registered nurse. “I had all the testing, but everything came back negative. She was also born with a heart defect, which is very common in children with Downs, and that wasn’t detected either until after her birth.”

Annie Akins is a professional singer who performs all over the Golden Isles. In fact, when we sat down to talk, she had just finished 13 gigs in 13 days. After resting the previous day, she was off to another one that very afternoon! She has been making a living as a performer her entire adult life. Annie knew at an early age that she was destined to be in front of an audience. “I really thought I was going to be an actress,” she said, “but I’m delighted with my choice and career.”

How did Hope 1312 Collective get its name?
Proverbs 13:12 says: “When hope is deferred it makes hearts sick.” This had been my experience serving children in hard places in and around the child welfare system. The lack of change and healing in those I was serving was making my heart sick, as well, but the verse continues: “but when longings are fulfilled there is a tree of life.” This spoke to me about all that could be if the resources of the church and community were connected with the actual needs of children in hard places. Trajectory shifts, broken generational cycles and hope fulfilled were still possible, and so our collective efforts were launched!

When did you first know you wanted to help children?
As a child, though I had a beautiful life from the surface, I often found myself feeling hopeless and voiceless. This experience connected me with other hurting children at a pretty young age, and God granted me perspective that I wouldn’t trade for anything!

Accomplished St. Simons pianist Michele Jamieson not only fell in love with music at a young age, her passion for song also played an integral part in meeting the man that would become her husband. Playing music together continues as one of the strong bonds she shares with the couple’s four children.
“I started (playing the piano) at age 5. As typical of many Asian households,” she laughed, “there was a piano in our home, so it was assumed I would take lessons. But I loved it; I really loved it. I am going to be 50 this year, so I’ve loved playing the piano for 45 years.”

Michele’s parents, Manuel and Cleopatra Fontanilla, came to the United States from the Philippines and settled in Virginia, where they raised Michele and her brothers Michael and Richard. After high school, she attended the University of Virginia, majoring in biology. While there, she met a fellow student, Timothy Jamieson. “When I met him, he was learning to play piano when he was working on his Ph.D, and that was part of the initial attraction,” she said with a smile. “I thought at first: ‘Is this a pick-up line? Is this for real?’ And it was real. He was learning to play a Chopin concerto, and I thought, ‘this is really cool.’”

This month, our theme is #MamaBear. You are currently on a tough journey trying to become a mama bear, as you wrap up your first In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) treatment. Why have you decided to share your IVF journey?
Infertility affects so many people. One in eight couples experience infertility, which means someone in your life has struggled, and you may or may not be aware. By speaking out, I hope I can make a difference with infertility awareness, somehow, some way. Whether the difference is in helping someone not feel alone during their own infertility struggles, or just putting information out that can help people understand infertility a bit more. Either way, in my heart it feels right, and I actually feel lighter in speaking my truth and sharing this very personal experience.

On the morning of January 6, 2020, the “Office Girls” received a text from Regina Banis that said, “Jake’s dead.”

It was the exact moment Regina discovered her 23-year-old son, Jake, had died from an accidental drug overdose that divided eternity in two. Everything before that precise second was experienced BJD (before Jake died), and everything that followed—every breath, every thought, every sound, every smell, Every. Single. Thing.—passes through a filter of grief labeled AJD (after Jake died). Just that quickly life goes from being experienced to being endured.

Avid runner and race director of this year’s Sunshine Festival 5K and 1-mile fun run, Lesley Leonard didn’t start running seriously until after college. Once she got hooked on the sport, there was no turning back.

“I was the little girl who hated P.E. and much preferred to be in the library, reading books,” said the St. Simons Island resident and member of the Golden Isles Track Club. “I didn’t run until I was in college, and only as a part of my P.E. requirements.”

We are proud to introduce this trio of strong local women working, and now “playing,” as well, at the game of life here in Coastal Georgia. Yes, we have the stats on three high school athletic coaches from McIntosh County Academy, Glynn Academy and Brunswick High School. We thank their school guidance counselors for connecting us with leaders who excel in encouraging, energizing and engaging their teams. These lady coaches provide guidance, accountability, and discipline—and of course, always give of themselves 110 percent!

Growing up spending her summers at the Jersey Shore, Rachael Thompson developed an early love of the ocean.That love would ultimately lead her to the Golden Isles, where she is now the executive director of the Glynn Environmental Coalition (GEC), an organization that educates and advocates for a safe, clean environment and healthy economy for the people of Coastal Georgia.

“I grew up in South Brunswick, New Jersey, an hour from New York City, and only 45 minutes to the closest beach. My step-grandparents lived at the beach in Avalon, New Jersey, and we visited them every summer.” Rachael’s family had a small camper set up in a campground that shares a name with a Golden Isles landmark. “We stayed at Driftwood Campground,” she smiled. “So not only did I grow up in South Brunswick, I also spent summers at Driftwood—two parallels between my childhood and now.”

What was your very first adventure?
Growing up in Northwest Wisconsin we were outside all the time. A trip we often took as a family was a canoe trip up in the Boundary Water Canoe Area (BWCA) in Ontario, Canada. We would first find our way to our cabin, which could only be accessed by snowmobile, 4-wheeler, or boat. The cabin used a generator for electricity, and of course, the bathroom was an outhouse—not exactly glamping. We would pack the canoe and our hiking packs for a few days and take off. We would canoe and portage from lake to lake and camp overnight—rain or shine!

Registered nurse, Amber Geiger, said her desire to become a nurse was divine inspiration.

“When I was 14-years-old, I asked the Lord what He wanted me to be, and He wanted me to be a registered nurse,” said Amber, who currently works as a nurse on the Southeast Georgia Health System’s Brunswick Campus orthopedic floor. “I thought it was a crazy idea. No one in my family was in medicine, but over time I knew He was right. I love helping people, and I love what I do. It was meant to be.”

After earning her high school diploma through homeschooling, Amber enrolled in the nursing program at the College of Coastal Georgia (CCGA). She credits God, along with two of her nursing preceptors with her successful completion of the program. “Erin, who I can’t remember her last name, and Laura Townsend, who works at the hospital, were so patient and kind. They really helped me make it through.”

A blind date during college spring break in 1965 is how long-time St. Simons Islanders, Nancy and Mike Muldowney came to Coastal Georgia in 1993. Well, really Mike’s career as an executive in food processing was the catalyst. But great warmth in making long-time friends, community service, an art framing business, playing golf and our Coastal Georgia climate have kept them here ever since. The Muldowney’s not only love each other, they love cooking and feeding a crowd. So, pull up a chair, because learning about them is a real treat:

According to a popular meme, the first rule of 2021 is to never talk about 2020.

Enticing proposal. However, we probably shouldn’t listen to a riff off of Brad Pitt’s line in Fight Club, especially since 2020 gave us a lot of material for making drastic changes. Maybe, instead, we could structure our 2021 game plan according to another classic 1999 film: The Matrix. Rather than trying to forget the past (as the meme jokingly suggests), we choose a mindset—like the red pill in The Matrix—to see necessary truths for knowing how to exponentially improve our lives.

Look at it this way: We can either bury the pile of memories from a year we’d love to forget, or use that plethora of experiences as opportunities for rising in life-altering, empowering ways.

“Entrepreneur, commercial realtor, mom, mentor, volunteer and construction expert are just a few of the many hats St. Simons Island resident Cherise Cartwright wears on a daily basis. But that wasn’t always the plan.

“I grew up in a little bubble in Wellington (Florida), a small, equestrian town known for polo. My family’s business was real estate and construction, and I thought I would be doing anything but that,” she laughed, adding originally she planned on being a journalist. “I wanted to be independent, leave home and get a corporate job.”

More than any year in recent history, 2020 has shown us the utmost importance of lending a hand and doing for others. Particularly, thanks to our magazine editorial and other media sources, we have been able to witness countless women in various stewardship acts of kindness. Thanks to our wonderful readers and friends of Paisley Magazine we found three local, dynamic representatives, who are full of heart and emulate what it means to lead lives driven by purpose. Read on as each woman gives us a peek at how she is helping to be the difference…

Dr. Michelle Johnston, President of College of Coastal Georgia (CCGA), says the number one way the school is making this issue’s theme of #BeTheDifference a reality can be summed up simply—by preparing its graduates.

“We are preparing incredible graduates to go out into the world,” said Dr. Johnston, who was selected to lead CCGA in 2018 as the institution’s sixth president.” We have students that not only come from the local area, but also from 35 states and 20 countries, and they are graduating and making their mark on the world. They are the reason we are making a difference in our community and beyond. Our most recent data shows that 77 percent of our graduates choose to stay and work in this area of the state,” she said, adding that many of the graduates who have stayed in the Golden Isles come from over 100 other Georgia counties. “Instead of experiencing a brain drain, like other areas have experienced, our school has become a brain magnet.”

Best friends Tammy Langdale and Cindy Schoch met as community service volunteers. Their shared dedication in giving back to veterans and their families is what continues to keep this heart-filled friendship strong five years later.

“We met working as volunteers with the American Legion Auxiliary in Darien,” said Tammy, whose grandmother was the president of the chapter years ago. “We didn’t know each other before that, and we just hit it off. Volunteering with the Auxiliary is a great way to meet friends.”

While Tammy is a native of Darien, who grew up on Jekyll Island, Cindy is a native of Connecticut, who didn’t move to Darien until six years ago after she and her partner, Wally Schieferdecker, sold the marina they owned and managed in the Constitution State. “We spent about 10 years looking for a place to move, including Glynn and Liberty counties, but we kept coming back to Darien. We fell in love with the waterfront.”

Becca Randall, the Glynn County Interim Executive Director at Habitat for Humanity, considers herself blessed to have her best friend Caroline Kittle. The feeling is mutual. Caroline is Executive Director for Grace House, a 14-bed, sober women’s living home in downtown Brunswick. These best friends consider each other to be their best lucky charm in life. Willing to share their thoughts, we secretly asked each one questions about their friendship. Enjoy reading not only what each friend said about the other, but also about themselves:

Inez McDaniel, born and raised in Niterói, Rio De Janeiro, Brazil, moved to Georgia a little over 30 years ago and is a naturalized US citizen. Inez is fluent in Portuguese, English and Spanish, which is a big plus in her career as a Georgia Licensed Professional Counselor. This busy mother of two adult daughters Amanda, 23 and Stella, age 21, recently opened a private practice in downtown Brunswick. When asked about the subject of personal well-being, a motorcycle was immediately mentioned accompanied by a huge smile on her face…

Inez, what three things do you consider vital as the best tools in working as a professional counselor? It is difficult to limit it to only three, but the three things I consider vital in a counselor are: 1) Ability to listen to feelings and underlying issues genuinely; 2) Ongoing learning of new techniques and strategies, enhancing flexibility and understanding of cultural differences and diversity; 3) Self-care. This one is critical! Making the best of leisure time, connecting with family and friends, eating healthy, exercising and having a hobby such as riding a motorcycle.

Darien native Amy Pontello, ARNP, has just two things on her ultimate wish list: “One, that there would be less stigma surrounding mental health issues; Two, more access to mental health care. Really, less stigma would automatically equal more access for some people,” said Amy, a psychiatric nurse practitioner at Coastal Community Health Services (CCHS).

Although Amy has been a nurse since the 1980s, she didn’t transition into psychiatric nursing until about three years ago. “I started out as an R.N. at the hospital in Brunswick.” She and her husband, Bob, then spent 15 years living in Florida, finally settling in Key West, where she transitioned into oncology nursing.

Meet Gary Nickoukary–President, activity organizer Dondra Whigham,
and “numbers guy” Mark Semmelmayer—a trio of key leaders in the non-profit organization The St. Simons Island Newcomers Club. For over 15 years their mission in promoting community friendliness has seen their numbers grow to over 340 members this year. Their successful program incorporates learning and
socialization while gaining an appreciation for the Golden Isles.